4 reasons divorce happens after the holidays

Posted by Lauren S. CohenNov 29, 20190 Comments

The period from Halloween to New Year's Day is exciting for most families. After all, November and December provide many opportunities to connect with relatives and build memories. Unfortunately, January often brings more than just fresh snow.

Recent research indicates that divorce filings tend to spike after the holidays. As such, if your marriage is on shaky ground, a winter divorce may be in your future. Here are four reasons divorces often happen immediately after the holidays conclude: 

1. Delaying the inevitable

You may have thought about divorcing your spouse for months. Still, you may not want to ruin the holidays by filing for divorce. If you have decided to wait until the festivities end, a January divorce filing may make the most sense.

2. Hoping for a change

When you walked down the aisle, you probably thought your marriage would last a lifetime. Even if you have evidence that indicates you are heading for divorce, you may hold out hope of reconciling. While holiday festivities provide dozens of opportunities to do so, you may end up disappointed.

3. Encountering additional problems

Even under ideal circumstances, the holidays can be stressful. Clearly, additional stress can cause already strained marriages to falter. That is, you and your spouse may find new ways to fight during the holiday season.

4. Pledging for a better future

Nearly two-thirds of Americans make New Year's resolutions. Because early January is the traditional time to make changes, you may finally choose to end a broken marriage. Furthermore, you may want to wash your hands of your divorce before the summer rolls around. 

Divorces can happen at any time for any reason. Nonetheless, they are common in the months after the holidays conclude. By understanding why marriages end in the early months of the year, you can make the right decisions for you and your family.